The R.E.A.L. Assessment | 7 Pillars Global
Mark Aylward

A message from Mark

You made a good move by being here.

I'm Mark Aylward, executive advisor and founder of 7 Pillars Global. I spent 30 years coaching executives and founders. I built and sold two companies. Then my life detonated. A nine-year custody battle stripped me of my company, my home, and my identity. Six therapists. Seven opposing counsels. Seven judges. I represented myself and won sole custody of my three kids.

That experience didn't break me. It built the R.E.A.L. Framework and the RESHAPE model — two accountability-based systems I now use with every client.

I work with C-suite executives and founders in the US and Canada who are navigating divorce. I work with men only. If you are serious about getting back to the top, complete this assessment honestly. I will read every word and respond personally.

Mark Aylward Founder, 7 Pillars Global
7 Pillars Global

The R.E.A.L.
Assessment

Built for executives navigating divorce.
This is not a quiz. It's a mirror.

R — Reflect E — Evaluate A — Activate L — Lead

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Let's Start Here

Basic info so I can follow up personally — every submission gets a real response

R

Reflect

Structured inventory. Who you were before this, who you are now, and what divorce exposed.

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On a scale of 1 to 5, how much do you trust your own judgment right now? *
1Gone
2Shaky
3Uncertain
4Recovering
5Solid
I second-guess everythingMy judgment is solid
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Where are you in the divorce process right now? *
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Who were you before this started — and how far does that feel from where you are now? *
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How honest have you been with yourself about your role in how this is unfolding? *
1Blaming
2Avoiding
3Partial
4Mostly
5Owning it
Still in denial or blameTaking full ownership
E

Evaluate

Clinical, not emotional. What the situation actually looks like — legally, financially, and personally.

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Which of these are you dealing with right now? (Select all that apply) *
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How would you describe your wife's approach to the divorce so far? *
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Do you have children? *
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What have you already tried that hasn't worked — and why do you think it didn't? *
A

Activate

Not "I'll try." Clarity on next steps. Real commitment to your own recovery.

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What is your current employment or business situation? *
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What specifically do you want to lean on coaching for? *
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How ready are you to commit time, money, and real focus to your own recovery? *
1Not ready
2Thinking
3Almost
4Ready
5All in
Need more time / clarityI've been waiting for this
Weight: Medium
If you could be in a fundamentally different place 90 days from now, what would that look like?
L

Lead

You can't lead your kids, your team, or your future from a place of collapse. This is where that changes.

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How well are you holding yourself together right now — emotionally, physically, professionally? *
1Reactive
2Struggling
3Functional
4Intentional
5In command
Barely keeping it togetherSolid and in command
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Who is watching how you handle this — and what do you want them to see? *
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How much personal accountability are you currently taking for where things stand? *
1Blaming
2Partial
3Acknowledging
4Owning it
5Full ownership
It's mostly external factorsThis is entirely on me
Weight: Medium
If nothing changes in the next 6 to 12 months, what's actually at stake?

The honest ones always get a response.

Submit your answers. Your full R.E.A.L. Report will be emailed immediately. I read every submission personally and will follow up within 24 to 48 hours.

Not ready to finish right now? Book a free 30-minute strategy session directly.

Analyzing your responses...
Building your personalized R.E.A.L. Report

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Overall Readiness Score

Your full R.E.A.L. Report includes a detailed breakdown of each pillar — observations about what your answers reveal, specific actions you can take right now, and personalized recommendations based on where you actually are. It also includes your AI-analyzed open responses and a coaching readiness assessment. This report is being sent to your email now.

Including your blind spots, your activation gaps, and the identity reconstruction work that needs to happen before anything else can stick...

Your full report has been sent to your email

Check your inbox — including spam. It's detailed, personal, and worth reading.

The report tells you what. The call tells you how.

Book your free 30-minute strategy session. We'll walk through your results together and build a clear path forward — no pitch, no pressure.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is the R.E.A.L. Assessment? It's a structured assessment built specifically for executives and founders going through divorce. It helps me understand exactly where you are — legally, emotionally, professionally — before we talk. That way our conversation is specific to your situation, not generic coaching advice.

Who reviews my answers? I do. Every submission is read personally. You'll hear back from me within 24 to 48 hours with my specific observations for your situation.

Is this a sales pitch in disguise? No. If I think I can help you, I'll say so. If I don't think I'm the right fit, I'll tell you that too. The goal of the assessment is clarity, not a close.

What happens after I submit? You'll see a portion of your results on screen and receive a full report at the email address you entered. I'll follow up personally within 24 to 48 hours. If you're ready to move faster, you can book a free 30-minute strategy session directly from the results page.

Do I need to be in crisis to do this? No. Most of the men I work with are still functional on the outside. They're running companies, showing up, performing. But the divorce is pulling at something underneath and they know it. You don't have to have hit bottom to benefit from this.

Is this coaching or therapy? Coaching. I'm not a therapist and this isn't clinical support. If you need that, I'll tell you. What I do is strategic, accountability-based coaching for executives who are ready to stop reacting and start moving.

Do you work with men at any stage of divorce? Yes. Contemplating, in the middle, or rebuilding after. The stage doesn't matter as much as whether you're serious about getting your footing back.

What Do Clients Say?

“I wholeheartedly recommend Mark's coaching and mentorship to anyone seeking meaningful personal and professional growth”

- Alan G

"I also feel like your advice goes beyond just career. Your experience as a single parent makes you value the whole human experience in a much different way than most men"

- Miles T

"Working with Mark was a transformative experience.  Today, I feel confident and invigorated, eager to continue iteration on my redefined path to happiness and success."

- James P

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